Panic and Fear or Peace and Quiet?
For some, 2020 has been one complete sh*t show. Don't fret... there's still eight months left! In recent weeks, the vast majority of the world has been introduced to face masks and 'social distancing' due to the current pandemic. Some are losing their everlasting minds, others are embracing the sudden change with open arms.
It's a "new world," folks! A world of uncertainty and panic, blended with germaphobes, introverts, and self-proclaimed extroverts who are writing out their Living Will as we speak, choosing death over the idea of living in a world of...
*wait for it*
Dun, dun, dunnnnnn!
At the onset of this COVID-19 craze here in the States, never in a million years did I expect to see this:
Photos taken on the weekend of March 14th.
What you're witnessing are freezers without meat products, an aisle without toiletries, another without water, a.k.a. FEAR! Not even the threat of a hurricane has caused such chaos - at least not around my parts and this was about the only time I found myself annoyed, filled with anxiety (why has the whole world gone toilet paper crazy?!). For starters, I've always been one to stock up on necessities, but this time I'd allow other shoppers to 'out shop' me. Son of a ...
Aside from the minor hiccup, I've accepted our new norm (albeit temporary... or not). It's what I called a "life reset" moments after noticing the trickle down effect with 90% of the country shutting down within a matter of days (now in its 5th or 6th week if you're counting). The current generation has never seen anything remotely close to this.
Despite the circumstances, which sadly includes an influx in job losses, health issues and fatalities, I still found a silver lining through it all. The world now has a chance for a much needed reset.
Society desperately needed it, the unfortunate part is that it came with a few casualties. I don't know how we could've gotten around that. But here's my point:
People suck. More so, sh*tty people and their untrustworthy behaviors. They're the ones who breed introverts. Can you guess who's currently basking in all the glory as the nation experiences one of its darkest periods in history? That's right - Introverts!
Isolation is a walk in the park for us (I proudly consider myself to be an introvert; one who chooses to be gregarious only when the spirit moves me. Balance is key). Introverts have gracefully accepted social distancing. Quite frankly, we don't want you too close to us anyway! While the whole world has gone batty, we're sitting back with our feet up patiently waiting for the storm to pass. Many of us were rejected by our peers long ago; distancing is nothing to us. And if you think we're bothered by the notion of staying at home, try again. Staying inside for days at a time is almost like taking a trip to Bora Bora!
Sometimes ANYTHING is better than socializing with humans 🤣 This "new world" isn't new to us. We've lived it and many of us survived. You can too!
Down time is good. Embrace it. Use it to your advantage and focus on the things that truly matter: the well-being of loved ones, self-reflecting, reading, learning new crafts, doing some work around the house, decompressing, catching up on Rambo movies and playing countless hours of old SEGA GENESIS AND NINTENDO GAMES (I confess). Or, you can simply lurk the pages of Instagram models (double-posing as Certified Personal Trainers) who will provide enough eye-popping material (and workout tips) to get you into tip top shape!
It is time to rediscover YOU.
In all seriousness, I am certainly sensitive to those who have lost their jobs, struggling to make ends meet during this unprecedented time. However, the world we've grown accustomed to wasn't a normal one to say the least.
The hustle & bustle of that world was taxing on the mind, body and soul. Be honest with yourselves. We normalized it because we didn't know any better, foolishly thinking it was the "way of life." Wrong! The end result led to society (western culture, to be exact) losing sight of the essentials of existence. We forgot how to prioritize at home; enjoying the smaller things that we've typically taken for granted. Now is the time to rediscover that.
For those of you currently losing your minds - breathe! Reassess your life before rushing back to the mass hysteria of the pre-quarantined world. If you find yourself struggling with this "new norm," don't worry, the old world will be back in due time.
Back to the noise
Back to traffic jams
Back to open coughs and sneezes in public
Back to a world where we chuckle at people wearing face masks
Back to your employer enforcing an 8-hr day/5 day a week rule sitting at an OFFICE desk instead of in the comfort of your own home (although its been proven most office work - excluding those who are face to face with clients - can be done from home)
Back to conversing with as many people as your little heart desires
Back to online dating and meeting randoms at neutral spots
Back to traveling, dining out and spending money
Back to having a substantial amount of toilet paper and hand sanitizers on the shelves
Just make sure you've learned a thing or two from our current sabbatical before THAT world rears its ugly head once more.
Kudos to all of those working on the front lines risking their lives every hour of the day. Time to 'reset' their salaries and celebrate all that they do.